The kinky world of BDSM dating

It’s been very much a taboo in the past, one of those things that doesn’t get talked about in public (or in private for that matter). But BDSM dating is incredibly popular and people are becoming more and more open to it. Here we discover the kinky world of BDSM dating. Is it really what we all think it is?

The kinky world of BDSM dating

If you have thoughts of BDSM dating being just like fifty shades then you’re probably not too far on the wrong track. Although real BDSM dating isn’t quite as dramatic as the film would make out.

With a huge rise in people being more open to different fetishes and ways of dating in recent times you are more than likely to come across it at some point in your life. So here we are going to find out what BDSM dating is, why people enjoy it, where you can find a BDSM date and whether or not this way of dating is safe.

What is BDSM dating?

BDSM stands for bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism which should give you a clue as to what it is all about. This term covers quite a broad range of different fetishes and kinks.

For some men it’s all about being dominated by a strong sexually dominant woman. For the woman it’s all about asserting that power over a weak man who wants to be humiliated and defamed. Foot worship is also another branch of BDSM dating. Some men enjoy being ‘foot slaves’.

Why BDSM dating?

This way of dating appeals to people of all walks of life. You might have thought that this would just be popular with your average joe.When in fact a lot of successful people like to get involved to take a break from the stresses of their high powered jobs and lives. Often high powered, successful business men often enjoyed being dominated as a way to let go of their every day stress.

Where can you find a BDSM date?

With the rise in popularity of this way of dating it’s never been easier to find a BDSM date in your local area. Sites such as My BDSM Hookups offer a way to easily find someone with the same tastes as you in your location.

Don’t worry if you don’t fit into a specific category of BDSM as most sites are accommodating of all genders and sexualities. This includes couples, gay and lesbian, transgender and anyone else who enjoys this way of dating.

Is BDSM dating safe?

So you probably already realise that the idea of BDSM isn’t to be nice and kind to each other. In fact most people like to experience some pain but can it be safe to go on bdsm dates? What if things get out of hand? How do we know when to really stop? This is where a ‘safe word’ comes in to play. You decide on the safe word before things get heated. Then when you really do want the other person to stop you use the safe word instead.

This is a collaborative post.

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